Should I give my boyfriend a gift for birthday even though he didn't give me one for my bd?

We are together for almost 3 years, he is very affectionate but he couldn't take me on a trip on my birthday (which was his initial present) and he didn't get me any gifts after. Should I give him one on his birthday after all this? The truth is that he hurt me so much... because he didn't do anything romantic for that day he was just saying happy birthday all day... and kept on asking should I take you out to dinner, should I buy you roses, should I buy you ice-cream ... And since I was so offended I just kept saying no to every question. Please help!