I've always live to please people and it has brought so many heartaches to me. I need help to change.?

Its always nice to help other people, but sometimes you need to think about yourself. You can't please everybody. Sometimes when people such as yourself have such BIG hearts and they intend to help everyone, it can go against them because people might take advantage of you. It won't make you a bad person if you can't help everyone. Hope this helps.